Article : Discover The Real You

Article : Discover The Real You

-by Punterr !!

Discover The Real You
 
 
Who are you and why are you here? It may seem like a straightforward question. Most would answer by giving their name without giving it much thought.
However, on deeper reflection, do you really understand who you are?
 
 
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We are complex beings. We cannot be defined by the things around us, but by the things within us. I believe that in essence we are what we think. Physically as human beings we are all essentially the same. It is our thoughts and experiences that differentiate us.
 
 
Your true identity:
 
 
Our true identity, then, lies within us, not outside of us. We should define who we are based on our thoughts, our values, principles and beliefs. It’s okay to have material things and all, but they should not be our sense of self. They are just things that are there to make our lives easier.
 If you were suddenly homeless today that would not change who you are as a person. You would still be you.
 
 
Look within yourself, not without. For everything begins and ends with your thoughts. Sidney J. Harris adds that “Ninety percent of the world’s woe comes from people not knowing themselves, their abilities, their frailties, and even their real virtues. Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves.”
 
 
 
The road to self discovery:
 
 
Reading is a powerful means of discovering who you really are. If you read the right books and other material you will gain a deeper understanding of others as well as yourself. Unfortunately, there are many who are in a self-imposed prison of ignorance even today. The books are all around them. They just don’t want to read. The culture of reading is not well established in many Zambians. For such people Atwood H. Townsend has some timely advice:
 
 
“No matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading, or surrender yourself to self-chosen ignorance.”
 
 
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Choose not to live in ignorance about who you are and what you can do. Decide today to discover more about yourself and to start on the journey of self discovery.
In the words of James Allen:
  “Only by much searching and mining are gold and diamonds obtained, and man can find every truth connected with his being if he will dig deep into the mine of his soul.”
 
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The simple fact is that if you are successful within, in your mind, you will be successful on the outside as well. It may seem too simple thing, but it is something we often forget when the pressures of life surround and overwhelm us. When it comes to making everyday choices it usually does not occur to us.
 
 
Abraham Lincoln said he didn’t “think much of a man who is not wiser today than he was yesterday.”
 
 
Welcome challenges:
 
 
So, if you are not being challenged in any way, you cannot grow. If you do not have anything to push against, you cannot make any progress. This is a revealing but true concept. If you are absolutely satisfied with your life the truth remains that you will not try to change it in any way. Any positive change must come as a result of some negative influence that forces you to change.
 
 
This negative influence can take many forms – from dissatisfaction with your work to disappointment from your girlfriend or boyfriend. There are many geniuses out there who found their passion and did amazing things after some tragic event in their lives or after being disappointed in one way or another.
 
 
As Lee Iacocca said:
 “In times of great stress or adversity it’s always best to keep busy, to plow your anger and your energy into something positive.”
 
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What Jim Rohn did is a good example of that principle at work.
I would urge you right now to write a list of things people in the past have said you can’t do. I would urge you also to plan your victory celebration – what are you going to do once you get there? What are you going to do to help elevate those who will be in the position you may be in now?
 
 
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The winning mindset:
 
 
When it comes to succeeding in life there are three basics mindsets that people tend to have. These are the win/lose mentality, the lose/lose mentality and the win/win mentality.
 People with a win/lose mentality would be those that compare themselves to other people all the time. They believe that in order for them to succeed others must fail. To them, success is relative.
 Those with a lose/lose mentality believe that they can never achieve anything worthwhile so why should they let you do so. They try to keep other people in the sinking boat that they are in. Negativity is the order of the day for them. Don’t ever try to tell such people that you have great plans for your life – they will only criticize you and tell you it can’t be done. After all, they tried that already and it did not work!
 
 
Dreamers, who are achievers, have the win/win mentality. Not only do they know that they are capable of and will succeed, but they realise that their success does not depend on other people’s failure. To the contrary, their success depends on other people’s success.
 
 
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Stephen R. Covey, in discussing this subject states:
Win/win is based on the paradigm that there is plenty for everybody, that one person’s success is not achieved at the expense or exclusion of the success of others…It’s not your way or my way; it’s a better way, a higher way.”
 
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A Dish of Ice Cream:
 
 
In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of 
 
water in front of him.
 
“How much is an ice cream sundae?”
 
“50 cents,” replied the waitress.
 
The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied a number of coins in it.
 
“How much is a dish of plain ice cream?” he inquired. Some people were now waiting for a table and the waitress was a bit impatient.
 
“35 cents,” she said brusquely.
 
The little boy again counted the coins. “I’ll have the plain ice cream,” he said.
 
The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and departed.
 
When the waitress came back, she began wiping down the table and then swallowed hard at what she saw.
 
There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were 15 cents – her tip.
 
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